October 2, 2023
No wedding day is exactly the same, but it can be easy to get wrapped up in what everyone else is doing. Insta-worthy table spreads and Pinterest details are tantalizing, but do they tell the story of you? Your love story is unique, and your wedding day should reflect that. Whether you’re planning an intimate micro-wedding, an elopement, or a big bash, here are 7 ways you can tell your love story through unique details that authentically reflect you and the love of your life.
1.) Choose a Theme
What do you and your partner love to do together? Do you both have an intense love for something that you want to include in your wedding? Make it your wedding theme!
I’ve photographed a fairytale wedding, Texas western weddings, and speakeasies. Each one was completely it’s own vibe and reflected the couple, where they come from, and their personalities. You can go for elegance, or keep it fun and funky – it’s completely up to you!
2.) Incorporate Details in your Florals
A patch from your mother’s wedding dress wrapped around your bouquet, an heirloom cutting tucked into the blooms, or perhaps your grandparents’ picture in a locket. Floral details are a wonderful way to honor your loved ones.
I’ve also had couples make their own floral arrangements out of flowers that were important to them and fallen vegetation from the area they were marrying.
3.) Play Your Own Music
Everyone loves Pachelbel’s Canon, but does it really reflect you? If you’re into 90s country, go ahead and put on some Garth Brooks. If you’re a former emo kid, there are definitely some soft, emotional songs that are appropriate for walking down the aisle. If you have an alt version of a popular song that you want played during any part of your day, let your DJ know! They’re there to help your day be as unique as you are.
I also highly recommend having live musicians. Many of them have a repertoire much larger than your standard wedding tunes – and many more can take on custom requests. Having a live performance really elevates the wedding experience and can really get the party going too.
Are you a musician? This is the perfect time to serenade the love of your life.
4.) Handwritten Vows
You don’t have to stick to traditional “repeat after me” vows. You can write your own vows to each other, and they’ll be much more meaningful and heart-felt. You don’t have to read your love letters to each other in front of the crowd either – private vow exchanges are becoming more and more popular with first looks and touches. I’ve also seen love letters delivered to each partner before the ceremony, often with a small gift. Those private moments before the wedding ceremony are filled with such intense emotion, perfect for exchanging sweet promises of forever.
You can write your vows in custom vow books, postcards from the location of your destination wedding, or vintage stationery. Whatever your heart desires, grab your favorite pen and let your feelings out on to paper.
5.) Serve Your Favorite Food
You don’t have to subscribe to the buffet or plated meals if it’s not your style. Do you have a favorite food truck that you both frequent on date night? Ask them if they can cater your wedding! Do you and your boo bond over morning cups of coffee? Hire a coffee cart to keep everyone pumped for the party! Mobile bars, carts, and trucks are a super fun way to incorporate your favorite foods and keep the party going late into the night.
6.) Bring your Pets
Your pets are family too, why not bring them along for the party? They can walk you down the aisle, act as ring bearer, and (in the state of Colorado) even sign your marriage license!
7.) Throw Away Tradition
This isn’t your parents’ wedding! If you want a unique ceremony, hire an officiant who will personalize the entire experience. All you need is the legal bare minimum, and the rest is up to you! Heck, you don’t even need to have an entire wedding party. You can marry while rock climbing, exchanging vows while suspended over a canyon. You can marry while camping in the mountains, swapping fancy shoes for comfy Tevas and hiking poles (like we did). You can also marry in front of a cozy fire in a log cabin in the woods with guests wrapped in your grandmother’s quilts. You can do exactly what you want to do – be it adventurous or cozy. For elopements and microweddings up to 15 guests, we can help you make this happen.
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